Oh, thank you for this! It's a point I've been trying to make to various people (mostly off the Internet) ever since we saw KKBB. Every now and then, Ianto will ask a question about which he's simply curious, but he accepts it when Jack doesn't want to answer it just then. I'm thinking especially of the boardroom scene in 'From Out of the Rain,' where Ianto asks Jack who sent him to investigate the Night Travellers. Ianto's quiet, gentle and open in his approach to Jack, not screaming and demanding. It's one of my favourite things about watching them together.

Catherine