The problem for me is that over the whole series I haven't been able to construct a solid view of my own on the relationship between Jack and Ianto or even on Jack himself. I find myself flip flopping like some kind of suffocating fish over it. Of course, LJ doesn't help, as each time I read one of these posts I can completely agree with the argument being set out, as each presented point seems to be valid. The bad thing? Each writer seems to view it differently and so there is "evidence" for just about every view point out there. My way round it? I am a Janto fangirl in the extreme. My heart belongs to Ianto. I see the bits that show how good this relationship could have been shown onscreen (Adam, The scene at the table in FOOTR) and cling on to those for dear life.