The way I see it, I own my own body and I keep it even when I sleep with someone, and vice versa. Of course, there are contracts people enter into, especially for health reason, but open contracts are as alright as close contracts.
People's been having sexless affairs and loveless sex for ages. It's definitely not a lack of self worth, if you don't give a damn about him sleeping around, and vice versa, or maybe, just maybe, you actually LIKE it. Like, it's fun to compare notes on people you've both slept with outside the relationship the way other people compare places they've been to without the other.
Dude, your choices are your choices, other ppl's choices are other ppl
People's been having sexless affairs and loveless sex for ages. It's definitely not a lack of self worth, if you don't give a damn about him sleeping around, and vice versa, or maybe, just maybe, you actually LIKE it. Like, it's fun to compare notes on people you've both slept with outside the relationship the way other people compare places they've been to without the other.