Not buying that one. Post-Fragments, can you really say that Ianto has suffered more than Owen or Tosh or (especially) JACK! and that this justifies his self-centered whininess in the course of the two series and especially his apparent need/desire to cling to Jack like a limpet and obvious fear of any and all relationships Jack has had or will have that are not him?

Assuming that Ianto really knows everything, then he knows about Owen's fiancee, as well as Diane, which makes his self-righteous prickishness in CJH even more annoying.

Just not buying it. Yes, he's been through shit. They all have. They react in their own ways, and his is WHINING, but his is not worse than anybody else and it doesn't justify said whining. Give me Owen's alcoholic womanizing any day!